"Surveys show that 45% of people claim to have been unfaithful at least once in your life. However, there are many who dare not admit it ... To face this fear so common in couples, journalist, writer, humorist and illustrator graphic Argentina, Ana von Rebeur, addresses this issue from a frank and direct. "
What is the causes infidelity?
- In every relationship there comes a point where we win the routine and boredom, and we would recover the adrenaline and the romance of yesteryear. To produce an infidelity is necessary to enforce the "Rule of the C": Curiosity, Fever and Confidentiality. The infidel fools because they can, either because they found those who seek adventure, it was the situation and / or because he thinks no one will know. If we knew that we guarantee absolute confidentiality and no one ever will know, everyone would be unfaithful. If we are not is not to hurt our partner. And because it's not easy to find somebody to be!
- Is looking away what is not in it?
"Not as much as people think. For most of the infidels who are not interested in putting the horns but the fact of it. Infidelity has nothing to do with what the official partner is, do or not do. The infidel has a tendency to be, for one reason or another.
- So what then does an unfaithful lover?
-Proximity and innovation. Men who fall for their nearest and dearest. Someone to stay with you and not to go, is sexy, especially if the couple is absolutely everything known and predictable. Guess what is it that you have? It is not known!
- How to detect an infidel at once?
"The infidel choose their clothes more carefully than before dieting and invents reasons to be less and less time at home. Never hungry, and covers subjects not previously mastered. Sudden change of taste, is offended when you imply that lies and does not want to have sex with his wife.
- Are they different from the signs of a cheating wife to the man who cheats?
-In men concealment issues are a disaster: they leave evidence everywhere. Contrary to what happens to men, a woman would prefer your romance is in the utmost discretion. The fault offset cheating men with gifts and expensive food surprises. The woman tries to be even more sullen, so he does not suspect that she is in love and happy. Men take infidelity as a game. Women looking for someone to hug and mime.
- Is it possible to forgive and forget an affair?
"Ask forgiveness is a kind of post-handling dirty treachery on the part of those who have committed the foul. At first, it is only possible to let the incident and not keep talking about it. But clearly it is never forgotten, so that the infidel must care a lot more than before the deception to win again, even a portion of the trust of others.
- How can we save our relationship to infidelity?
-Treating not to give more importance than it has, and thinking about you as an infidel and solid partner, being a third circumstantial lover passed into history, and is already out of the picture. Hillary Rodham Clinton's wife, took her husband's infidelity by saying, "In twenty years of marriage, many things happen in a couple, and this was just one of them."
- Do you think infidelity is the cause of most break-ups between couples?
"Of course. A marriage is a mutual assistance pact, a mutual aid society. No one would tolerate a society do with someone who is associated to another without telling you, right? If he will not tolerate in the business world, much less in the world of intimate relationships. Infidelity is a mockery of the trust another has placed in you and is very well not tolerate cheating. But we must take into account certain parameters: Who are you and your husband who is unfaithful. In the book I say that is fine you get divorced from a nobody who has deceived you, but I also recommend that if your husband is one of the height, would be much better for you to do a blind eye.
"The person who has once been unfaithful, will it be forever?
If you dare to do it once, maybe dares another.
- What are the keys to roughly your partner do not you ever be unfaithful?
In ancient times, marriages were supported by their children, by what people say and economic status of women. We now live stimuli bombarded by advertising that they want to convince us that if you feel like Romeo and Juliet, your partner does not work. The two extremes are bad. Nor should we support all abuse and disrespect, or that divorce is the first deception. "You
this issue with humor ... is it better to laugh than to mourn?
"The humor arises from pain itself, when we see that we can survive more afraid of what gives. Do not go well stopped horns put you if you laugh at how good you are. In addition, in this company have the horns.
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